Archive | February 2015

Excerpt — Sex at Dawn

We mustn’t forget that the familiar fingers of culture reach deep into our minds. We can’t feel them adjusting our dials and flicking our switches, but every culture leads its members to believe some things are naturally right and others naturally wrong. These beliefs may feel right, but it’s a feeling we trust at our own peril. — Christopher Ryan, PhD & Cacilda Jethá, MD, Sex at Dawn

Quotes — Rossiter W. Raymond

Life is eternal; and love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. — Rossiter W. Raymond

Quotes — Socrates

He is richest who is content with least, for contentment is the wealth of nature. — Socrates

Learning to Walk (that’s a metaphor)

I recently listened to a man talk about a specific self-help type book—which? It’s irrelevant. He was not a fan of the book. He claimed that it provided no new and original ideas… it was all the same stuff he had been reading for years, from several different writers.

What this man did not expect though was the author to acknowledge this fact.

The author wrote that the ideas he was presenting were nothing new. But the reason he was recycling them was because he knows they don’t stick the first, or even the second time people are exposed to them.

You have to be constantly assaulted by an idea before it actually takes hold of you and you integrate it into your perception. A single exposure is not enough. A second is not enough. The idea must be consistent if you are going to accept it.

What a brilliant thought.

For several weeks, I’ve been thinking about chasing your dreams and what it takes to start down that path.

Similar to what that self-help author said about constant exposure, I think a required element is to continually try to move toward your goals.

It’s like learning to walk. You eventually find the courage and motivation to attempt to reach that goal, so you stand up. But then you meet your first obstacle—gravity—and you fall back down. It was a serious blow, one that a lot of people don’t want to get back up from.

But you aren’t dissuaded. After a recovery period, you stand back up.

Eventually, you take that first step… and it’s awkward. You fall down yet again. But you keep with it, and after several tries you begin to walk… you begin to move towards your goal.

I’ve self-published one book (The Divide). It was the sixth book I started writing. I still have the beginnings of the other 5. One is non-fiction, with a whole lot of research behind it. Two more fiction books have full scene outlines. One even has a first chapter written. But I kept falling. I kept running into obstacles with these books. It wasn’t until my sixth attempt that I finally found my rhythm and managed to walk across the room and meet my end goal. A completed book.

Now that I’m a bit better at walking, I’ve started working on another book. But I don’t refer to it as my seventh book… it’s my second book. Why? Because I know how to walk. I know I can finish this book. So what I’m really saying is that I’m writing my second book that will be published (even if that means self-publishing).

Keep standing up. Keep taking that first step. Be consistent in your efforts… and you will learn how to walk.

Quotes — Earl Nightingale

Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it. The time will pass anyway. — Earl Nightingale

Excerpt — Autopoiesis and Cognition

… perception should not be viewed as a grasping of an external reality, but rather as the specification of one, because no distinction [is] possible between perception and hallucination in the operation of the nervous system as a closed network. — Maturana, Humberto R. and Varela, Francisco J. Autopoieses and Cognition: The Realization of the Living.

Quotes — Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

We are here on Earth to fart around, and don’t let anyone tell you any different. — Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.

Quotes — Viktor E. Frankl

As to the causation of the feeling of meaninglessness, one may say… that people have enough to live by but nothing to live for; they have the means but no meaning. — Viktor E. Frankl

Quotes — Orebela Gbenga

You know you’re on the right track when you become uninterested in looking back. — Orebela Gbenga

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